
The book is memoir and I am not generally into reading memoirs and biographies or autobiographies but then Big Bang Theory is kind of my thing so I had to pick this book from the shelves.
And soon, I started reading it.
The book is not a typical minute by minute account of the life of Kunal Nayyar. It is more of a platform for him to share his stories, his experiences of settling in a different nation for studies, his accomplishments, his failures, and how he overcame his failures without giving up. The book is refreshing. Very refreshing.
Or maybe only I felt this because I was in such a bad mood yesterday ( read my last blog post to know the reason).
Okay, so yesterday night I decided that I have to finish this book anyhow. And I did. And I LOVED it.
Kunal Nayyar takes you through the most important events in his life. His experiences in New Delhi, his experiences abroad, and his struggle in theater. AND, his Big Fat Indian Wedding. Yup, there is a whole chapter dedicated to it.
There are so many beautiful things that he has shared that I don't think writing a blog post about them would be enough.
Still, I'll try.
I absolutely loved the chapter titled "Dinners with Dad", where Nayyar shares the small things that his dad told him. One of them is "If what you want happens, good. If it doesn't happen, very good." Now considering, what I went through during that debate thing this thought consoled me, I realized that this failure is an opportunity to learn more.
When reading the book, all Indians who go abroad to study or pursue a career can definitely relate to it.
This boy did not give up his passion for acting, even when he faced rejections.
He always looked out for more opportunities.
Never letting the rejections take away his confidence.
Nayyar has so vividly described his childhood, his college years, his friendship and the lessons that he learnt.
After reading the book, I felt that I have known this guy for a long time, I know what he has been through, I have been a part of his victories and defeats, I have witnessed his rejections and success. It is as if I was his imaginary friend. I know him now. Until after reading the book, I had known Raj Koothrapalli, the astrophysicist. But now, I know Kunal Nayyar. He might not know me, duh, but I know him.
And I guess that's the main aim of a memoir, to help connect to people on a personal level.
That's all for now. :)
Love,
The Bibliophagist
P.S.: If you guys have read the book, then please do share your valuable thoughts. :) And yes, I clicked that photo. ;)